To me!

It's 1:30 AM, I can't sleep for the life of me. The downside of working nights I must say! But since I now work from home which would be another blog entirely, let me rather entertain you by something else than bore you with that bit.

Nights do bring a lot of thoughts out, it does allow your mind to simmer on things that you normally wouldn't think of. I've come to the conclusion that I've been alone for quite sometime but I've never really learned how to be alone. My mind automatically wanders through things or people that I could talk to or meet, or just drown myself with work and spend obscene amounts of time in the office. I am always with some people or doing something or if not doing anything --- thinking of something to do.

I really want to learn to be alone. I don't wanna master loneliness but solidarity, find that peace in the company of myself. Being the type of person who likes to do a lot of things in terms of work and gigs (which I love), I also want to do a lot of things that I can find pleasurable and fun. So, I think in all that is universal --- single women who gets to this point and phase of their lives and no longer finds the effect of changing hairstyles as riveting or effective, make lists!

So here's my list of things to do in the effort of learning not just to be myself  BUT spending quality time with myself. :)

1. Spend lesser time on Social Networking - Facebook and Twitter. ( not including my blog or Instagram as I have to have evidence and documentation that I'm following this list)

2. Take myself out on a Date: Eat out, Watch a movie or just do anything FUN!

3. Eat Better: 'Nuff said!

4. Be more ACTIVE!: That's more realistic than saying EXERCISE

5. Learn to cook a new recipe at least once a week: and probably let my family suffer by eating it! lolz

6. Learn or do something NEW!: a craft, a language or a hobby etc.

7. Self-development: I have to use a vague and big word for that because this can range from "Reading
                                    More" to "Getting a bikini wax"

8. Get enough sleep.

9. Get my room an upgrade: Paint, Bed, Carpet, Closet and Vanity Table

10. Fall in love with myself!

I think my list is incredibly easy for me to follow which would mean a total failure if I can't.Most of these are things I will do by myself and that being said, let me go start with Number 8.

XOXO